I always held doors open, I gave people rides when they were too drunk from our high school escapades, and yet, I always seem to get some of the bitchiest girlfriends in existence.

I kept smiling, even as she was saying "oh god damn it." and didn't even apologize for spilling my coffee! But whatever, there was still one more part of the evening left, the local music club.

So as I learned that night, girls can find the smallest things to complain about, when it comes to music "it's too loud!

I’m getting incredibly lonely and yes before you say it, I did behave like a nice guy tm once and just once.

I was an ass, I made an incredible fool of myself, I traumatized my friends and worst of all, I hurt that poor girls feelings.

It is unlikely, being as self-aware as you are now, that you will repeat those same mistakes.

And there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a late-bloomer, or in delaying romance and sex until you meet the right person or feel ready.This will serve you well when you meet someone who is single and who has the qualities you like.It will feel like “” The fact that you have lots of female friends is also an encouraging sign. So let’s talk about some stuff you can do differently to improve your life and your chances of meeting someone you’d like to be with.I remember picking her up and parking the car about 3-4 blocks away from the river and she said "Why are we stopping here?! " My initial plan was to kind of set the mood, and walk through the more...historical part of my town, seeing as how this girl has only been in La Crosse for a couple months.She wasn’t the nicest person and took advantage of me, but I hurt her feelings and I made sure when I came to my senses that I apologized, regardless of what she’d done, I messed up.