Within seconds of joining the 1.01 million “genuine” users of for “investigation”, I have nine new messages from potential suitors and 25 profile views.As a new user, my profile is given prime place in the gallery of fresh young meat for the taking. A few are from the same persistent man, who tells me he “just wants to talk to me” because “it’s refreshing to see a genuine person on here and not some troller”.

Love them or hate them, Ashley Madison has a well-known reputation for one of the first "dating" sites that focuses on helping people cheat.

I've reviewed Ashley Madison myself, however readers have clamored for years, asking for a real-world review from a female that had used, and succeeded, in meeting at least one person from the site for an affair.

What follows is one woman's experiences, where she was a member for a little over a year.

I've only edited it for clarity, added some headings, and grammar. I have had two longer term affairs and I met both guys on AM. Think how much fewer women would be on there if we had to pay. if you send us a message then the message we send back will be collect.

I can tell you that the vast majority of men on AM don't know how to use the site and that's why so many men are dissatisfied with it. Only Men Can Pay for Ashley Madison Women have NO ability to buy credits. I strongly believe that AM has fake women on there who send out "paid for" messages to men. It's All a Bit Much For Us Ladies Upon signing up for AM, women are overwhelmed by messages.

This is why blind requests for our key, winks and admirer messages are generally ignored.

This site allowed me to find a special friend with benefits.

What was the Ashley Madison's Customer Service like?

Why would we waste our time with those when we have messages from 10 men who have written notes and communicated with us. Write a cute message..something that disguises yourself.

Wait Before Asking for Pictures Don't demand to see our private showcase early on. Be Patient, Honest and Forthcoming, In Every Way If you are lucky enough to arrange a meet, don't be overly aggressive or eager. Hopefully you didn't lie about your age or weight or anything else. Women on AM are usually looking for more than just sex.

Where To Avoid Spending Money Don't waste your money on the "traveling man" option. A generally safe way to meet other married people looking to have an affair.