It’s not modern relationships and dating – it’s modern booty calls and half hearted interest.

It says, I’m not interested enough to Feet in reality, shed the fur coat of denial and keep yourself on a Bullsh*t Diet.

This guideline also applies to when they you to make an exception to your normal rule of behaviour – someone who genuinely has your best interests at heart will not expect or demand that you do something outside of your normal behaviour. Whether it’s figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you.

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Do not erode your self-esteem by disrespecting yourself in a relationship. This is a fundamental part of Whether they tell lies about the future to get what they want in the present or they just refuse to talk about the future, if you’re involved with Pinocchio or you’re with someone who can’t see their way to making plans with you, cut them off as soon as this becomes evident.

Some people just can’t help but talk themselves up a storm at the beginning.

You’ll know it’s only their terms when you try to instigate your own orbalance things out – they’ll shut down/disappear/get confrontational or pretend to agree and then revert back to doing their own thing.

It’s your prerogative to have casual sex but you should only be doing so if it’s what you actually want and are not building up feelings.

She also didn’t care for them because it meant I was spending time with my friends and not with her (warning sign #2) – but this time she relented and .

I had been there for less than an hour before she showed up to quite literally drag me away (warning sign #3).People who have integrity and respect you don’t lie to you.when someone is not interested or is half hearted and using you for what they can get, or has outright turned you down.Don’t waste your life waiting for them to become the Person They Were In The Beginning.If someone is reluctant to talk about the future, it’s because they don’t want to give you the impression that you’re Plain and simple, if you are not on an equal footing in the relationship and one person is dictating the temperature and pace and deciding what does and doesn’t happen, you are in an unhealthy relationship.If they were interested, you wouldn’t still be chasing them!