Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.

I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.

I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.

Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.

I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.

Here in Medellin, you do NOT need to play that game.

Medellin nightclubs are for dancing, so it’s very easy to go up to a woman in a noisy disco, put out your hand, gesture for her to take it, and start dancing.

Generally, these women will be dressed and fashionable.

I can tell they are going to work because normally they will have a badge around their neck or pinned to their shirt or pants.

More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.

A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.

I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.