Whether the divorce was your idea or your spouse’s, most people find themselves experiencing negative emotions when their ex-spouse starts dating again. You two were a couple and to see your spouse with someone else will trigger feelings in you that may be surprising and unpleasant.

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Remembering the negative aspects of your marriage can go a long way in helping alleviate any the unpleasant idea of him/her dating again. I’m sure you’ve heard that saying, “The best revenge is living well.” Well, it’s true!

If you are feeling jealous, the last thing you want is for your ex to know.

When you meet someone new, you will have a better perspective on how your ex is feeling about you and the relationship you both once had.2. Most people are puzzled as to why they are jealous of someone they didn’t want in their life any longer. This was YOUR husband or YOUR wife, you expected fidelity, and now it may feel like cheating to see them with someone else.

Remember what you think and what you feel can sometimes be at odds, but it’s perfectly normal to feel some jealousy and even look for things to criticize in your ex’s new partner. Divorce is not entered into lightly, and you probably have valid reasons for the divorce.

You are now dating my ex-wife, and her lawyer, my lawyer, and a state judge have all informed me in writing that you have a legal right to do so. I’m not a blackmailing pickpocket doubletalking divorce attorney, so I don’t know the technicalities.

My ex-wife and I have been divorced for about 8 yrs.Between divorce and deciding to date, a highly important personal development needs to occur, what psychologists call "separation and individuation".This maturational process resembles what children go through as they separate from their parents and take responsibility for their lives.Instead of focusing on what he/she is doing, focus on living the best life you can and before you know it, you won’t be concerned with whether or not your ex is dating.5. The relationship that you had with your ex will never be reproduced with anyone else.Each relationship between two people is different, and what you had together during your marriage will never be reproduced with someone else.Dating an ex-spouse should not be simply a response to loneliness, matter of convenience and/or lack of alternatives.