Based on Natasha Burton, Julie Fishman and Meagan Mc Crary's hilarious blog, "Big Red Flags," the book marries useful advice and startling stories that will assure readers they're not alone in the often-rocky quest to find Prince Charming. 15 Relationship NO-NOs You Keep Doing Over And Over Again While some of the anecdotes may induce a major case of second-hand embarrassment, the book ultimately gives hopeless romantics a stronger understanding of what's most valuable in a relationship—and most importantly, how to avoid ending up in a heartsick debacle.

There is no need to be concerned if only one or two people have something bad to say…but if everyone is saying it… Just about any situation can be viewed as a dating red flag based on your previous experiences with your ex-husband.

Questions to ask yourself: What are they seeing – and what should I look out for? Consider everything and make a list of what you will and will not tolerate in a relationship along with red flags that could point to him being like your ex.

It might be embedded in their “guy code” or could be from personal experience, but when it comes to getting to know a woman, certain ‘red flags’ or warning signs alarm them of what they might be getting themselves into.

All of us have fallen for the exception to the rules and warning signs, and so have men, and the lesson and outcomes seem to be the same.

After all, you do not want to wind up with another man that is exactly like your ex, just with a different name and body.

Most of all, trust in yourself and trust your intuition!

He tells you that you are doing it the wrong way or that things you are interested in are stupid.

Questions to ask yourself: Does he get extremely angry if you do not follow through? Do you really want to be controlled by another person? He tells you that he sees you looking at other men.

We're all processing a lot…it's called life.

Red Flag Rule #46: If a guy feels the need to tell you that he is not critical, judgmental or self-righteous, we'd argue there's a million-to-one shot he is.

Does his jealousy control where and when you go out? Questions to ask yourself: Is he afraid they will not like him (or see his true colors? He has met your family and friends and none of them have anything good to say about him.