That’s just nature, and the fact that the temptation is larger because of the way society accepts and even promotes promiscuity.

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It lays the groundwork for healthy sense of self as well as healthy relationships with others, including males, for a girl’s entire lifetime.

What’s more, and along the same lines, a girl’s positive relationship with her brothers also helps her develop healthy personal and social relationships with males, which helps later on in her life.

For that reason, later dating is just a better statistical odd for healthy emotional development.

You stack the odds in favor of your child when you postpone their one-on-one dating until they are older, when they have more mature social and coping skills, have a stronger sense of self, have been exposed to more situations, and because of this presumably have better manners and skill.

In short, girls learn about man/woman relationships first by seeing the husband/wife mother/father relationship modeled in their home by their parents, and then by experiencing their relationship with their siblings (if they have them).

Last, they learn from chaperoned and parent controlled exposure in various social, academic and athletic settings.The skills she uses when communicating with her brothers are the same skills she will later use to communicate with other guys.When parents encourage sibling bonding and teach their sons to protect their sisters, they are setting the groundwork for a happy later life for them both.They attend supervised dances, skating parties and the like.These social situations are healthy and normal, and encourage girls to see young men as people and friends first, not just as romantic interests.Interestingly, the negative mail I got about this topic was primarily from the very group of women who prided themselves, at least in college, in being open minded. Our girls’ dad and I believe in fiercely protecting the treasures our daughters are while they are minors, and helping them make good choices, protect themselves and choose wisely as they mature and become adults. But for now, here we go- Mom’s Dating Rules for Girls 1. Yes, I am quite serious, and it’s working out great!