Then these boys grow up and are exposed to the opposite sex in an abrupt, often sexualized way. This is definitely seen in how they treat not only women, but everyone around them.The consequence of this is a lack of understanding of women, a lack of comfort and often, a lack of respect. There is a courtesy, consideration, chivalry and thoughtfulness in how they act, behave and engage with others.This breeds a generation of men who have habits of looking after their own needs versus the needs of the collective. Europeans don’t get their sexual education from porn. European men have a different perception of beauty.

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I made a snap assessment linking her comment and her cleavage.

It reminded me of a conversation I had with a gal pal when I was preparing for dating three years ago.

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I said I was going to invest in some low-cut tops to attract guys.

My wise friend said, “If you show too much too soon, you’ll only attract guys who are interested in your cleavage, not you.” In other words sex-obsessed players.Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid.You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play.I am by no means a prude, but wonder if by wearing this kind of clothing women are sending signals to men they don’t really want to attract.Not that we should wear always cover up with turtlenecks, long sleeves, and shapeless pants. Women argue that we ought to be able to wear whatever we want and be liked only for our personality.Sure, they will go out for dinner and do fun activities, but it’s not packaged up in a formal and contrived manner. It’s more organic and instead of defining the relationship in order to know how to act, they let the relationship unfold and the label of boyfriend/girlfriend just naturally develops in the process. European men are comfortable with women, which leads to respect for women.