And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.To become more attractive within, take pride in your appearance, and focus on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do.

Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.

Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin? Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention. Use your body language to position yourself so she has to lean in to talk and fight for your attention. We had a lot of fun putting this interview together and would like to thank everyone who got involved!

And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening. Ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. Be sure to visit the experts’ sites to learn how they can help you become better at dating.

Tampa Bay Bucs star Gerald Mc Coy is FURIOUS after he found out a group of boys called his 6th grade daughter the N-word at school ... Mc Coy says the boys were playing "Truth or Dare" when one of the dares was to go up to Mc Coy's 12-year-old daughter and call her the n-word to her face.

Gerald says the boys were "bold enough to do it" -- and his daughter is devastated. Instead, he learned about the incident from his daughter and had to contact the school to find out how they were handling the situation.

– When talking to a girl, ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. ” The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you’ll be in the eyes of women.

For example “I have zero time for dull girls, do you do anything fun in your spare time? NOTE: We also asked 31 Pick Up Artists how to pick up girls in 7 different situations in a parallel interview here, and then combined the results from both interviews to make this fun infographic on how to talk to women and build attraction!