If someone truly respects you and your choice they will never make you feel bad or guilty for choosing not to have sex.

Even if it's a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or a friend, sex of any kind without . If you abstain from sex with someone you are dating there is no need to worry about contracting an STD or getting pregnant.

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The best relationships start with each of these as a solid foundation -- not sex. If you have decided to abstain from sex until marriage and someone is pressuring you to have sex with them, explain that you have decided to wait until you are married for reasons that are important to YOU.

If they continue to pressure you then they are disrespecting you and your choice.

I guess its because people are told guys only want one thing, so when a guy doesnt seem to want it then their must be something wrong.

But its not that he doesnt want it, cbecause he does its just that he wants to wait for the right time.

Nothing worse than sleeping with a girl who you thought liked you to find out she was only looking for some fun, but you cant say that to anyone because your a guy and you got laid right ? I mean its nothing to do with your sex drive you could be the kind of person who wants to do it 3times a day and still want to wait. I think whether you prefer to wait or not its fine, its up to the individual to decide when its right for them, i mean i tried the whole one night stand thing back in my uni years and it just wasnt to me. I mean if i meet someone i like and we date im not going too wait 3-5years to sleep with them. But waiting a few months is doable and can make the whole thing so much better and more rewarding, Its like waiting for that bike you've wanted for years and then christmas comes and you finally get it.

However i could never do the whole waiting till marriage thing im not made of steel. But then again if i met a girl i really liked and she was absolutely sure that she didnt want to have sex until marriage then i would happily wait for the right girl.There is a difference between love and sex and it is not necessary to have sex with someone to show them that you love or care about them.It is not right for someone to make you feel bad or say that you do not love them because you do not want to have sex with them. Sex is a very intimate act and it can complicate a relationship. If you have sex with someone when you are not ready, or because you are pressured into it, you may feel bad.Friendship and romance cannot work without respect, honesty, trust and caring.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.