If you had a bad day, stay home unless you can bring a positive, approachable attitude along.

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I attend movie classes alone and add new classes each year to my schedule, no matter what is going on in my life. Learn from the mistakes others have made and travel smoothly as you begin dating after divorce.

Men are attracted to women who have a vibrant life and who take care of themselves outside and inside. Always nurture your spirit and do things that give yourself pleasure. What can start out as a friendship may even turn into romance.

I only dated because my ex had a girlfriend, and it was my way to personally retaliate. Starting to date again can be an overwhelming experience. I needed to work through my personal issues before I could be successful in dating.

Fortunately, I had the help of a wonderful professional counselor who helped me move forward.

A coach will tell you the truth about your readiness to date. My advice is, before you join the dating boomers, seek out professional help from a trained counselor or coach like myself.

In this case, you need a coach more than you need to eat another chocolate bar with a girlfriend!

Many women go straight to their girlfriends for advice on dating and relationships when a professional source is needed.

An unbiased professional -- someone who sees issues objectively -- is a better choice.

Being afraid to go solo: Solo is the way to go when you are looking to meet someone to date.

Although we love being with our girlfriends, constantly traveling with a group of gal pals is a recipe for disaster.

Men don't change their schedules and you shouldn't either.