If you’re tuned out or otherwise disengaged during first encounters and beyond, you’ll derive as little satisfaction as the person you’re ignoring simply by failing to be present in the moment.

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Having lots of options is great, but the more choices we have, the less likely we are to make a (satisfying) decision, studies confirm.

Same goes for online dating: Research shows the more profiles we compare, the pickier we become.

This make you seem more approachable if someone appreciates your wit, Salkin says.

Plus, if someone opts not to message you back because they don’t like your style of hamming it up, that’s fine—you probably wouldn’t get along with them anyway. No one wants to read a 1,200-word essay on your childhood.

If you prefer to sleep in on weekends, don't lie about loving your 7 a.m. Same goes for images of you doing sports or activities you’d rather not try again, or listing hobbies you aren’t actually into but claim to be just to seem cool.

Be honest about what you're looking for, but don't get too "heavy" about it.

Too much too soon can be off-putting, creating the sense that we're more of a burden than an exciting new prospect, Salkin says.

That's not to say you should lie about these things, but try focusing on the upsides and positives in your life before launching into the real-er stuff.

Movies (in a theater and not at someone’s apartment), comedy shows, or any of these 29 unique first-date ideas would also work.

If nothing else, you’ll have an alternative source of entertainment in case an awkward silence ensues.

Plus, swiping left too many times may cause us to devote more energy to vetting candidates who may be out of our league, connect with people who don’t actually match up with our personal preferences, or issue “no’s” to potentially good matches simply because we assume something better is just a click away.