In the world of dating in Colombian women, it is fine to be a worldly, confident beta and to compliment a woman.

It is important to understand the violent past of Colombia and its effect on the psyche.

This example is to illustrate the the flakiness of Medellin culture and how circumstances are ever-changing. A man with an appealing online profile can easy set up multiple dates.

If none of them cancel or are late (which is unlikely) proceed with the one you like most and reschedule the others.

When rescheduling, make sure you reiterate your interest in seeing her.

Choose a location close to your apartment and pick up the bill for coffee (during the day) drinks or a light meal at night. I have dated from 19-30 , with the talent level 6.5 to 8.5.

Although, I love dating younger girls, my best connections were developed with girls in their mid- 20s.

Girls from Medellin “Paisas” are proud of their culture, music, food and language. I have been flaked on in Colombia too many times to count.

They seem to have even more local pride than national pride. I recommend the following for dealing with flakes: Don’t automatically “next her” because she flakes.They are less flakey, maintained their beauty and I have much more to speak with them about. You can start pipelining with so you can hit the ground running upon arrival. It is air conditioned with good Wifi, and has ice cream for 2 Mil.What worked best for me in Medellin was setting up a date at a coffee shop such as Juan Valdes or meeting for an ice cream in one of the malls, close to my apartment. Ice cream or coffee is my standard first date for meeting girls from online.They are mountain people and have an insular culture. Girls from Medellin always return to Medellin after living abroad. Nothing is more safe, relaxing and meaningful for them. There is billboard in Medellin which translated says, “Let’s see what happens”. This does not necessarily signify a lack of interest.If looking for a wife, I suspect that a girl from Medellin would not do well living abroad. Accept that there is a good chance she will be late or cancel.Establishing comfort and rapport should be your first task.