This is most definitely an anything goes type of place, so do take that into account when visiting.: Flesh out your profile fully with details about what you're after, what you offer, and where you're at relationship-wise.

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Posting in groups specific to your desires will amp up your chances of finding someone fantastic, however be prepared to wade through a tremendous number of replies, first.

I get a lot of flack for including Ok Cupid in so many of my recommended reviews, likely because the site does seem to cater to folks looking for something outside of the mainstream.

Then, hit the groups in your geographical region that cater to singles, and post a note with what you're seeking.: You'll get bombarded here just for creating a profile, so make sure to keep your needs and desires up front for all to see.

Make it clear who you will, and refuse, to respond to - most folks on Fet take "no" graciously - although some may get off on it.

Unfortunately with said plethora of sites comes the difficult task of finding the right site with a decent price and actual members that exist outside of a professional relationship - if you get my drift.

I've spent many hours on these kinds of sites, talking to members, using the features, and generally trying to see if the sites offer what they say they do, while still trying to keep my (and your) privacy intact.

At this point in time however, based on my own and reader reviews, as well as client experiences and other online sources, these are your best bets.

I have heard of others finding success at places like Adult Friend Finder, Match.com, or any number of adult dating sites though, so you're more than welcome to try them out as well - and then let us know in the comments what worked for you.

CL is a numbers game, and you'll have to respectfully answer as many ads as you can, showing exactly how you fit the criteria specified.