This reminds me of the fact that in over 100 languages around the world – unknown to most Christians or english Sunday ‘sabbath’ keepers, that the word for Sabbath is actually and literally the word for Saturday (yes – even now in 2017! What does this tell us about how times have changed!The one thing I fear most for many christian singles I meet today, is not only when they date an unbeliever, but it's also when they date somone who call themselves christians who have a form of godliness but lack the power thereof.

In fact the latter is actually impossible unless the person wants to be pulled up. is the draw and temptation that sex has to yolk you to the wrong person.

And so the result can be years of heartache on both sides.

i'm 17 and i made out with my first boyfriend, and was sorta disappointed when he started hinting at oral sex the next day...

i told him i didn't want anything more than kissing before marraige...

but God put this site in my hands." " Dear Shei, How refreshing to read your insight. Many are of ill equipped to handle marriage crisis and with the rising tide of divorce statistics even amongst christian marriages, we need the counsel of godly and sound christian dating advice and the Holy Spirit ever more.

My experiences with any dating sites are limited.also found that men usually don't want an uncompromising woman..surely a christian that doesn't fit "their" definition of what a godly woman in Christ is.. As a christian dating single, you need to understand the causes for failure and the essentials in your partner such as their personality traits, character traits, mental health and most important than these, their walk with God for marriage success, you need not end up among those divorce statistics. But that’s just my opinion, so to end if you are thinking about dating and hopefully changing the mind of that ‘wonderful’ person you have met who says all the right things and surely would want to know God then think again. So take your chances if you want, but the warning is there in The Bible as you may lose your soul – not because the other person is some evil being (all have sinned and fallen short) but because is easier for them to carry on being worldly and suck you back into it, and bring you back down – than it is for you to be godly and bring them up. This is what God places this severe warning on this man/woman relationships and less so on friendships – though a similar warning is given even about those you spend much time with – and the fact that for good or bad – it have an affect on you. The unfortunate reality is, just as with gravity, that it’s far easier to pull someone down to your level, than it is to pull someone up to your level, and so you run a risk to your soul when you yolk yourself with folks who’s wold view is often diametrically opposite to yours. Talk music, family, and nostalgia while flipping through rows of classics. That’s fine when they are dating and marrying people similar to themselves in that area as people who share similar views van often form string bonds and relationships, but when a Christian has managed to extricate them-self from the world – which is not unlike being stuck in treacle in my view, and then want to try their hand at converting a non-Christian to their way of thinking who is not playing on the same playing field, or set of rules, you are going into a battle that you are extremely likely to lose – since they have gravity on their side. Well from my experience the problem is just that – that people that have no knowledge of God, or no desire to love God, the latter at least want to live the gospel according to themselves.